Midlife Crisis

how to choose between the many job offers
how to choose which universities to enter
how to choose what event to participate
how to place and rank the importance

God pls help me
help me choose the right job, right uni, right event when you know i'm so indecisive and raw to this midlife crisis i'm facing now

*seriously i need someone to act as churches father and puts a BBQ wire netting between us for a confession role play. (i'm secretly thinking that my dear will do it)